Category
Pain / Thought
I am not attractive (successful, wealthy, etc) enough:
A belief that causes this particular suffering:
**My value is based on how I look. I have to be sexier and more attractive than other people or else I will not be important and will not be chosen (or keep the attention of my partner)
**This is true based on a population of people who are really caught in the trap of desire, physical appearance, and a need to be validated this way.
She was never really safe to tell the uncomfortable truth about how she REALLY felt…
She sensed her full expression was not allowed and slowly, she began to suffocate in this reality.
She began to judge herself for letting it out.
She wished so bad she could just be more disciplined, more pleasant…
She judged herself and hurt herself into submission…
(And have solid boundaries that allow our genius to come shining through…)
When you have been sexually assaulted or pressured… and your boundaries have been violated again and again… you begin to believe that your body does not belong to you.
You are allowed to have had BIG HUGE HOPES that it would work out how you wanted, and then be completely disappointed… and you are allowed to do it publicly as Soul led online entrepreneurs.
I searched the whole planet for this answer.
Asked everyone who taught feminine things and NO ONE COULD ANSWER THIS.
It took me 2 years of walking this out for me to FIND the answer for myself… and I freely offer this well sought out wisdom to you.
– Feeling like if you don’t do it no one will
– Feeling pressure to hustle and make it happen
– Being uncomfortable with romance and sensuality
– Trying to get others to “get it”
– Defending or explaining your needs & requests
– Boredom
I stand for women to be as big and bright and beautiful as we can possibly be, together… even when it hurts.
I stand for us, as women, to heal and do our work to be able to hold each other in admiration.
I know it can be triggering af to accept that fitness & being in great shape matters.
To feel that money matters.
To feel that romance and freedom matter.
