How I Get Out Of Stagnation Energy And Into The Magic

March 22, 2022

Every single time I am getting stagnant in business it is for one reason and one reason only… when you really drill it down…

Because I am being stagnant in my dreams.
My vision.
My life.

If I have no amazing conversations – no learnings that excite me – how will I have something to say to you?

If I DO nothing exciting and fulfilling in my day, how will I have something to cause me to BE different?

If I do nothing brave and courageous… how will I have the confidence that magnetizes humans to my world?

This is the question I ask myself often enough to get my arse back in the game when I drift off… “Would my humans want to hire me if they saw who I was being on the back end of my life?”

If they saw my thoughts, energy, life, and results…

100% of the time it is NOT about what I’m DOING but who I am BEING when I do it.
100% of the time, without fail.

And the fastest way I know to get back to alignment is to put myself in a position where I have no choice. And I can do that one of two ways lol…
1. Let everything get so bad that I have no choice but to move.
2. Consciously choose to do the thing I don’t feel ready for and let it stretch me.

I have learned that the latter is definitely more fun.

What if it is all NOT SUCH A BIG DEAL?
What if the only thing we need to do is to MOVE well before we feel ready.

Hire the freakin’ person already.
Book the freakin’ trip.
Say all the crazy things you are so sure will break the internet.
Giving the value we are afraid will make us irrelevant.

Choose it all, now.
All the way.

This is the aligned path of the ever-evolving humans who refuses to have life be anything other than what they truly desire.

Source responds.
Every freakin’ time.

It’s safe to do the crazy. wild. scary thing.
And it’s safe to do it NOW, way before you have proof that it will all work.

Feel the fear… let it go.
We don’t make decisions based on fear.
Feel the temper tantrum… laugh it off.

Nothing is so serious.

m xx

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