New Life, New Business, New Friends, New Joy, New Body, New Fun, New Man, New Motivation – It All Just Seems To Follow My Joy

January 17, 2022

It all just seems to follow my happiness…

Today I was creating a Bad Ass Boundaries for Leaders training for my Membership and I stopped dead in the middle and had this epiphany…

It all follows my happiness… and my happiness is created by owning what truly makes me happy – working through whatever is needed to believe I am worth having it – and then getting my ass in the arenas where I am required to BACK it up relentlessly with my actions.

There’s your formula for madness and SHEER JOY lol… and truth be told… just follow.

Ok… so success follows joy – joy comes from believing you are worthy to have AND CAN have all the things your heart desires…

What’s the kryptonite to this???

So what’s required in order to not let that happen???

The ever famous FK IT gene.

Fk it – I’m going for it.
Fk it- I’m saying it ALL.
Fk it – I’m letting them deal with their own emotions…

You are worthy to have your needs met.
You are worthy to be WILDLY AND CRAZILY HAPPY
You deserve to experience ALL GOOD THINGS.
You deserve the BEST and you deserve it NOW.

You get to have it all… you get to ENJOY LIFE.
You get to say what you want and say what you mean.
You get to say NO.
You get to say HELL YES.

You get to sidestep the things that feel like they are killing you slowly… draining your soul.

You get to dance, sing, play, cry, scream…
You get to TRULY LIVE.

You get to experience all the things you are curious about.
Learn all the things you long to know.

It’s not a sin to experience things that feel in alignment, to learn what you do and don’t like / believe.

It’s SAFE TO EXPLORE YOURSELF and explore others.

It’s not healthy to restrict yourself from things you truly long for – it’s a DENIAL of self… “To think own self be true.”

What is it on your heart to say/do today?
How are you holding back?
What would you be doing today if you knew you couldn’t fail?

What would you scream from the rooftops if you weren’t worried you’d be judged – or you’d be bad??

What is your deepest message to the world?
What do you KNOW you are meant to heal in this world?
What would you DIE FOR?

Are you showing up with this daily so the people meant to find you can???

love you
m xx

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