The Most Powerful Shift That I Have Ever Learned

January 19, 2022

Identity: it is the strongest human personality trait that exists.

I was reminded of this today by one of my coaches.

This is what came to mind.
I’m the girl who always does what I say I will do… and if by some extreme I don’t… it’s because it’s not in alignment with my identity.

So I can make one of two choices… I can change my identity or I can change the choice I made.

I will sabotage the ‘should’ every time… and stay in alignment with who I desire to BE.

Today I found myself asking… “Do I want to be work hard play hard girl?”

OR do I desire to be the steady, stable girl?
OR do I desire to be steady, stable – work hard, play hard girl?
OR something different altogether?

I desire:
BODY – Giddy, aroused, sensual, light, ALIVE
MONEY – Magic, wealthy, high vibe, of course, endless, effortless, fun, compounding
RELATIONSHIP – Beaming, hysterical, inside scream, intertwined, ecstasy, safe
IMPACT – Celebration, creative magic, co-creating with Source, happy tears, powerful, savvy.


Freedom means… actually doing what is aligned to do… no matter who thinks what about it, no matter the social norm, no matter what we thought we wanted or where we wanted to be a year ago.

It causes curiosity because it’s conscious, liberated, and FREE. Truly FREE.

In some phases that is wild Mandy, some phases it is meditation Moong bean Mandy, some phases it’s crying, puking, and shaking healing Mandy, some phases it’s Chanel Mandy, Marine Corps Mandy, money Mandy …

None of it matters, all that actually matters is that I am aligned with FREEDOM. Right now FREEDOM.

The COMEBACK is happening!!!

I was so scared it wouldn’t happen… but…

m xx

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My Conversation with Thich Nhat Hanh

What?! You mean… compassion for others includes the woman lying and hurting the man I love? It includes compassion for her?
That’s easy for you to say.
You don’t have a wife or kids that you love like I love them.
What’s that you say?
That’s how you love EVERYTHING? All humans? All animals and sentient beings?

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Not My Place To Get Someone To See the “Truth”…

For as long as I can remember I have always felt responsible for helping others see the things that they cannot see… the boyfriend on drugs, the way they are being taken advantage of, the abuse happening…
I have always suffered deeply to see anyone else suffering ESPECIALLY when I can see a way for their suffering to end!
This is what drove me so hard to break out of all of the abuse I was experiencing, go to school for 10 years while working and being a single mother with almost zero child support, start my business and make my first Mill in 2 years… THAT is a lot of drive, and it ALL came from MY WANTING TO END OTHERS SUFFERING.

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What I Resist, I Empower

I see this belief lately that “standing for a world where race & religion do not matter is naive.”
(And abusive)
It’s popped up a number of times in my feed and then once now in my own life.
”It’s exclusive and doesn’t account for all the biases happening today. Anyone who believes this only believes it because they don’t get it. They aren’t the ones experiencing the racism, sexism or etc.”
I understand the basis of this.

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Someone Told Me “You are not as enlightened as you think you are.”

And I wondered what that meant? What an unusual statement?
I realized that there’s a whole entire culture referred to as “woke” which couldn’t possibly believe more differently than my mentors who are considered “enlightened”. Which was she referring to?
And I chuckled.
I’m definitely not either…
Talk about a wild time to exist looking to find your way to a life full of joy and peace!

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Meditation Breakthrough

New one hour meditations….
I’m beginning to see what’s underneath all the crap….
I’m wildly resisting the reality of what’s happening to people and animals in the world… It feels like it cracks my brain and will burry me to accept it.

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I Was Being A Hypocrite

Sometimes we expect people to handle things even better than we are capable of handling them simply because society would agree that’s how it should be handled.
But that’s still hypocrisy…
Just because we can make the best argument for that being how it should have been handled… (womennnnnn lol)

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