Why Manifestation Feels Self-Absorbed…(and how to immediately shift it)

There is something off about the energetics of manifestation in our current culture…
When we slow down enough… we sense a nudge that there is something self-absorbed about hyper focusing on how we feel… on our VIBE.
There is something subtly narcissistic about it… something that gives us pause… and we just call it “money limitations”.

It sounds like:
I AM
I AM THE ONE.
…the one who manifests, who vibes, who attracts…
I AM the frequency… my desires are forefront…

We feel dissonance with this but… truthfully… all we truly want is to serve. To help. To be of value to this world in this life… so we keep trying…

Yet the questions remain…
WHY is it all about what I want?
WHY is it always about my thoughts and my frequency?
WHY is it always based on performance… and perfection…

This doesn’t feel like LOVE. It just doesn’t.
It feels like a toddler wanting what they want…

Is all about identity, personality, wants and thoughts…

Identity-Based Spirituality says:
I am powerful because of my frequency, my energy, my feminine magnetism.
The Universe responds to my state.
She is the attractor.

TRUTH says:
God is the source of all power.
My role is to remove ego interference so the Divine can work through me.
Power does not originate from my frequency or magnetism.
Power appears when I stop blocking the Light.
I am not the force that pulls reality in, the Light is the force, and my goal is to become unobstructed enough for it to operate.

Difference:
One centers the self.
The other centers the Infinite.

Identity-Based Spirituality:
“I align my energy and reality shifts.”
“My vibration draws things in.”
“My identity codes my results.”

TRUTH:
Creation moves through me when I remove distortion.
Reality shifts because GOD is creating, and I am not obstructing the flow.
Identity is irrelevant. What matters is how free of ego and obstruction I am, so the Light can move without resistance.

Difference:
One believes I create.
The other believes God creates through me.
Self-referential
“I am the point. God supports my expansion.”

TRUTH:
“God is the point. I support Divine expansion.”

Feel the difference?
Yup.
And you always have.
Trust.
Again.

This is how we play in the INFINITE…
This is how the infinite becomes human…

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When wildly successful mentors don’t resonate…

She kept hearing the same thing from everyone…
This teacher, that teacher changed my life.
This program made me millions.
This work is everything.

But every time she listened, something in her body said no.
The teachings felt flat.
Monotonous.
Predictable.
Dry in a way that made her feel annoyed, sometimes even angry, like she was wasting her time…

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It’s all ridiculous

It’s honestly hilarious how seriously we take our own evolution.
Soooo you took 4 years to learn a single lesson that knocked your business sideways?
So… you still trip over the same pattern?
You still procrastinate on the exact thing you swore you’d do last season?
… and the Infinite is not even blinking.
This entire lifetime is one tiny blip.
A spark.
A micro-moment in a long, long journey of becoming.

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We don’t over-give to make peace

We accept when someone chooses not to engage in a healthy dynamic and allow them to carry on with their journey.
We don’t chase, beg, or explain ourselves into exhaustion.
We don’t trade truth for approval.
We don’t revert to versions of ourselves we’ve outgrown just to avoid conflict.
We don’t make ourselves smaller, softer, quieter just so someone else doesn’t have to face themselves.

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